The new trend is to find the clown. Just in case you missed it, the trend started with a guy finding out he had been clowned for years by a girl he loved.
Now the trend states that you qualify to be a clown when you keep making the same wrong decision because you let your heart make decisions your head should have made. You view the world through love or rose colored glasses instead of being factual. You get to be termed emotional instead of practical, it’s a dicey place to be but we mostly find ourselves there. This is most common in situations were a significant other in involved; you fall for a colleague despite knowing office romance is a “no-no”, you decide to listen to the signs that someone gives and you hope the person loves you back, the worse of it all, you go into a one sided relationship with a pretentious cheating liar.
At one point or another, everyone has found themselves being the clown, we can’t help it. Humans are emotional creatures, over time, some people have learnt to master their emotions better than others while for some people no matter the hard lessons, they keep finding themselves wearing the funny nose.
It’s funny though that the easiest way to become a clown these days is to fall in love. Unrequited love is so common these days that you can hardly trust the love that comes your way, you may need to fight harder than necessary and in the end, you still need to put on the clown costume.
Some people have this solution; don’t ever fall, don’t show emotions, emotions are weak. These people become the clown makers, the puppet controllers.
So how do you find true love?
I have no idea, I’m still taking off my clown costume, I’m not sure I won’t need it again, I hope I don’t need it soon but who can tell? The heart is sometimes stronger than the head and in times like that you just go with the flow and remember to pick yourself up and dust your costume. I never advocate for anyone to become an emotional abyss but the choice at the end of the day is yours.
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